Inheritance disputes are family disputes wearing legal clothes — which is exactly why they mediate better than almost anything else in law, and why this practice pairs its estates credential with the Law Society’s Diploma in Mediation. This page is the honest case for the option: never pressure, always on the table, and best deployed by people who know both chairs.
Why These Cases, Particularly
Courts decide legal issues; estate fights carry the fifty-year ledger underneath — the caring years, the favouritism, the funeral’s words — and mediation is the only forum where all of it can be spoken and traded. The practical fits stack: privacy (the family’s finances and wounds stay in the room); outcome flexibility (courts order provision — mediations can swap the house for the site, structure timing, sequence sales, even apologise); relationships, where anything remains worth preserving; and costs proportionality against the fought probate action — with engagement itself reading as reasonableness in the costs analysis. Irish law agrees: the Mediation Act obliges solicitors to advise on the option before issuing proceedings.
Prepared Parties Mediate Best
The paradox that isn’t: the strongest position at a mediation table is a case fully built for hearing, offered settlement anyway — the assembled records, the honest arithmetic, the proceedings ready if the room fails. Which is how files run here: prepared for solemn form, open to resolution at every stage — and advised by training in how mediations actually work (what makes proposals land, when the moment is ripe, why premature tables collapse). Concluded properly, the outcome binds: a signed settlement agreement, enforceable and implemented through the estate’s machinery — the morning after a good mediation is paperwork, never honour.
The Honest Exceptions
Mediation is sequenced, not skipped, where: clocks cannot wait — a closing section 117 window gets protective issue first, talks after, because negotiation never pauses that statute; the counterparty is using process for delay; court powers are genuinely needed (removal, compelled production); or fraud requires discovery’s compulsion. Protect the position, then talk — the sequencing judgment being precisely what the paired credentials exist for. The option belongs on your table from the first call: the full dispute map shows where it fits yours.
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About the Author
Richard O’Shea, Solicitor, TEP practises with Mary Molloy Solicitors (established 1981) in probate, will disputes and estate litigation throughout Ireland. Richard is a qualified Trust and Estate Practitioner (STEP) — the international specialist credential for wills, trusts and estates — and holds a Diploma in Mediation from the Law Society of Ireland, a pairing built for exactly this work: specialist estates expertise, and the means to keep families out of war where that is still possible. Contact Richard on 01 5827148 or richardoshea@marymolloysolicitors.com.
This article is for general information only and does not constitute legal advice. Every estate and family situation is different, and time limits in this area are strictly applied - obtain advice on your own circumstances before acting or deciding not to act. We do not advise on tax; taxation questions should be directed to your accountant and Revenue’s published guidance. In contentious business, a solicitor may not calculate fees or other charges as a percentage or proportion of any award or settlement.